2013

I'm back with a new post! So here it goes..

Many things happened to me this year.

Bad: At first, i really thought that 2013 is not a year for me. Piece of shit.   I really had difficulties coping with studies & cca. Sec 4 life is a torture for me, tests tests and more tests, remedial almost everyday (glad that i'm not wanted by teachers, so i don't have to go for every extra lessons.) Next, cca practice for syf in April and unreasonable teacher-in-charge expect us to memorize scores when we are not familiar with the way it should be played. Haha bullshit. Sometimes i really wonder who will actually be by my side, just to listen to my complaints, encourage me, that's all.

Good: After i have spoken to a nice teacher of mine, i finally let down the big stone on my shoulder. Day by day, more great things happened! I met a really nice guy who helped us in a rainy day. So touched by his action, i can't take the scene off my mind. Lastly, I never regret becoming a Christian and going to CGM church. I really thank God for loving me and knowing that He loves me. Everlasting ♡
Even if it's something bad, i always remind myself that if God brings me to it, He will bring me through it. No matter what, i'll do my best and let God do the rest.

2013 is not a bad year after all. ^^

HAPPY CHINESE NEW YEAR TO ALL (:

Try and try and try.

Okay, the truth is, when you're upset, most people don't want to be left alone. Even if someone sucks at comforting, it's much better to see a friend than to see them ignoring you. Right?

So the thing is, most of the time, someone upset doesn't even care what you say, they just care that you're there. When they're upset, just listen. Don't change the subject, because that is what makes it the worse. They either feel ignored or they bottle up their sadness and let it grow grow grow.

All you have to do is listen to them. yup. Hear what they are saying. yup. If you have something honest to say to them that will make them feel better, of course say it, but comforting someone is as easy as making contact like giving them a hug or something? and telling them nothing but reassuring things like "it'll be okay" or "there's no need to be sad"

Some people are just naturally bad at advice or saying comforting things. That's okay. You have the intention of being comforting and that's what a person needs. Just let them know you're there, just be there with them. You don't even need to say anything.

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